I figured now was as good a time as any to dust off the ol' blog. As much as I love writing, I just haven't had the time, patience, or resources to do so. A lot has happened since my last post. My husband and I have lost two pregnancies. One at 15 weeks in October 2012, and one more recently at 20 weeks, just a few weeks ago. In total we have three children, although two we wont get to hold until we meet again in Heaven.
This blog is now going to serve a bigger purpose. To keep those interested in our adoption process in the loop. We have no plans on ever trying to have kids of our own again. We feel strongly that God is pulling us in the direction of adoption, to what capacity we are unsure of. But we're ready. We've been ready. Although our faith is on shaky ground, we are once again choosing to trust God's plans for our lives. We are choosing to believe that our heartache will serve a divine purpose. We are choosing to believe that we will have more children.
Adoption has always been on our radar, although I do admit it was a distant plan. Now everything is so real. Research is happening and plans are being made. I don't think I've ever requested more information on any particular topic in my life. And all the information out there is so overwhelming, but exciting at the same time. Things are getting real around here and we will anxiously await the arrival of our new little one.
Thursday, June 13, 2013
Thursday, February 7, 2013
Rocket Baby's 3 Part Tutorial On Preventing Mom From Cleaning
Important lessons on keeping your toys all over the place. Because having them put away is inconvenient to our plots for mass destruction.
1) get ridiculously upset when she starts picking up blocks. So upset that it irritates your already sore throat and you break out into a nasty coughing fit. The added sympathy of being sick works well in your favor.
2) escalade from just generally being upset to full blown crocodile tears. At this point the sore throat has now caused you to become raspy/lose your voice. Put on your most pathetic face and get ready for the final step.
3) decide you need to nurse for 30minutes. It's also imperative you don't bother your mom too much or she will threaten to take your milk away. Apparently being repeatedly smacked in the face makes her cranky.
Congratulations. You have now wasted an hour of her time.
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1) get ridiculously upset when she starts picking up blocks. So upset that it irritates your already sore throat and you break out into a nasty coughing fit. The added sympathy of being sick works well in your favor.
2) escalade from just generally being upset to full blown crocodile tears. At this point the sore throat has now caused you to become raspy/lose your voice. Put on your most pathetic face and get ready for the final step.
3) decide you need to nurse for 30minutes. It's also imperative you don't bother your mom too much or she will threaten to take your milk away. Apparently being repeatedly smacked in the face makes her cranky.
Congratulations. You have now wasted an hour of her time.
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Tuesday, January 15, 2013
Sneaky Treats - Rocket Chocolate Hummus
I can't be the only parent dealing with an extremely picky eater. I vaguely remember when Rocket Baby would eat anything we put in front of him, now he rarely strays from his (limited) favorites.
In a sneaky attempt to get better nutrients in him, I have been adding veggies, chia seeds, or hemp to his foods. It's worked for the most part, but even my best green smoothie recipes are currently failing.
I'm pulling out all the stops. Insert Rocket Chocolate Hummus. In all honesty I was convinced I created a brand new recipe until google crushed my dreams. In any regard I did create this recipe on my own, without any outside resources.
In all of its delicious glory, it can be used for just about anything! Today we used it as a fruit dip. It's the consistency of pudding and I must say I'm excited to try it with a little dairy free whipped cream! It can also easily be spread on toast or make yourself a nut butter and Rocket Chocolate Hummus sandwich! I promise it won't disappoint.
You will need ^^^ these ingredients and a food processor, I used my Ninja Food Prep.
*drain and rinse 1 can of garbanzo beans, dry, and place in food processor
*add 1/2 cup of unsweetened cocoa powder
*add 1/3 cup of pure maple syrup
*add 1TBS of chia seeds
*add 1tsp of vanilla extract
*add a splash of coconut milk (add in more until you get a desired consistency with blending).
*blend and serve, store in refrigerator.
It's that easy! It took me 3 minutes to make this and it really is a tasty treat. Hope your little ones (and you!) enjoy.
In a sneaky attempt to get better nutrients in him, I have been adding veggies, chia seeds, or hemp to his foods. It's worked for the most part, but even my best green smoothie recipes are currently failing.
I'm pulling out all the stops. Insert Rocket Chocolate Hummus. In all honesty I was convinced I created a brand new recipe until google crushed my dreams. In any regard I did create this recipe on my own, without any outside resources.
In all of its delicious glory, it can be used for just about anything! Today we used it as a fruit dip. It's the consistency of pudding and I must say I'm excited to try it with a little dairy free whipped cream! It can also easily be spread on toast or make yourself a nut butter and Rocket Chocolate Hummus sandwich! I promise it won't disappoint.
You will need ^^^ these ingredients and a food processor, I used my Ninja Food Prep.
*drain and rinse 1 can of garbanzo beans, dry, and place in food processor
*add 1/2 cup of unsweetened cocoa powder
*add 1/3 cup of pure maple syrup
*add 1TBS of chia seeds
*add 1tsp of vanilla extract
*add a splash of coconut milk (add in more until you get a desired consistency with blending).
*blend and serve, store in refrigerator.
It's that easy! It took me 3 minutes to make this and it really is a tasty treat. Hope your little ones (and you!) enjoy.
Sunday, January 13, 2013
Rocket Baby Fashion
Our Darling Rocket has been getting a lot of compliments on his infinity scarf, so I figured I'd write a quick post with a link to one of my favorite shops.
Trevor's cousin owns a great little shop called freeFALLEN. She has made so many cute things for Rocket Baby as well as all of his cousins and even some friends! We love everything we've gotten from her and highly recommend you check her out
Xoxo -
Jasmine
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Wednesday, December 5, 2012
A For Adventure : Adventures In Parenting
A For Adventure was originally intended as a series to write about the outings Rocket Baby and I enjoy together. To be honest it's probably the only thing I have going for this blog that sets us apart. As Trevor and I enter into a new adventure in parenting, I thought that a parenting specific edition would be fun and hopefully inspiring to other parents.
On December 2nd, our darling Rocket turned 2. I knew when I was pregnant that there was something truly special about this boy of ours. Aside from the way he healed our hearts after a pregnancy loss, or the way his name came to be, I just knew there was something else.
Rocket Baby has always been spirited, sensitive, and particular in nature. So much so that I wrote out an extensive list of his behaviors to discuss with his Dr. I honestly believed he may have a high functioning form of Asperger's. After discussing my concerns his Dr very confidently told me he does not believe Rocket Baby has Asperger's, but he is highly sensitive. Well, duh! I knew that! I just didn't know this was something Dr's actually "diagnosed". I assumed a diagnosis would be Asperger's.
I'm so thankful that Trevor and I have chosen a path of peaceful parenting. We do not hit or spank, we take Rocket Baby's feelings into consideration and we've always tried to accommodate his sensitive spirit. Over the past 6 weeks, after suffering another pregnancy loss, Rocket Baby's behavior took a major turn. He was very, very aware of what was going on, although at not even 2 he certainly didn't understand. He has been hitting, spitting, throwing things, and not responding well to any forms of peaceful discipline we have tried. Yes some of this stuff can be chalked up to him being a toddler, but unless you have a highly sensitive child, it's a bit hard to understand.
We try our best to be patient, kind, and respectful. These are all things I want our son to know well. It's so hard to do when you're basically at your wits end trying to redirect negative behaviors. I belong to a Babywearing group with some seriously awesome mothers and I saw someone recommend The Highly Sensitive Child by Elaine Aron. After visiting amazon and taking the short quiz determining if your child is HS, I knew I needed this book. I knew I needed it even more when his Dr said he is definitely HS. So today we stopped at Barnes and Noble and picked up a copy. I'm so anxious to dive in and will be doing a book review and my first giveaway after completing this book.
In the meantime, if you believe you may have a HSC, I would encourage you to take the short quiz and educate yourself on the best ways to parent a HSC. I truly believe God gives us kids to grow us and shape is into better people. Rocket Baby has taught me so much patience and understanding. I would not be the person I am without him and above all else, I want to parent him the way he deserves. The way he needs me to parent.
One last thing. If your child is highly sensitive, you are not alone!
On December 2nd, our darling Rocket turned 2. I knew when I was pregnant that there was something truly special about this boy of ours. Aside from the way he healed our hearts after a pregnancy loss, or the way his name came to be, I just knew there was something else.
Rocket Baby has always been spirited, sensitive, and particular in nature. So much so that I wrote out an extensive list of his behaviors to discuss with his Dr. I honestly believed he may have a high functioning form of Asperger's. After discussing my concerns his Dr very confidently told me he does not believe Rocket Baby has Asperger's, but he is highly sensitive. Well, duh! I knew that! I just didn't know this was something Dr's actually "diagnosed". I assumed a diagnosis would be Asperger's.
I'm so thankful that Trevor and I have chosen a path of peaceful parenting. We do not hit or spank, we take Rocket Baby's feelings into consideration and we've always tried to accommodate his sensitive spirit. Over the past 6 weeks, after suffering another pregnancy loss, Rocket Baby's behavior took a major turn. He was very, very aware of what was going on, although at not even 2 he certainly didn't understand. He has been hitting, spitting, throwing things, and not responding well to any forms of peaceful discipline we have tried. Yes some of this stuff can be chalked up to him being a toddler, but unless you have a highly sensitive child, it's a bit hard to understand.
We try our best to be patient, kind, and respectful. These are all things I want our son to know well. It's so hard to do when you're basically at your wits end trying to redirect negative behaviors. I belong to a Babywearing group with some seriously awesome mothers and I saw someone recommend The Highly Sensitive Child by Elaine Aron. After visiting amazon and taking the short quiz determining if your child is HS, I knew I needed this book. I knew I needed it even more when his Dr said he is definitely HS. So today we stopped at Barnes and Noble and picked up a copy. I'm so anxious to dive in and will be doing a book review and my first giveaway after completing this book.
In the meantime, if you believe you may have a HSC, I would encourage you to take the short quiz and educate yourself on the best ways to parent a HSC. I truly believe God gives us kids to grow us and shape is into better people. Rocket Baby has taught me so much patience and understanding. I would not be the person I am without him and above all else, I want to parent him the way he deserves. The way he needs me to parent.
One last thing. If your child is highly sensitive, you are not alone!
Monday, December 3, 2012
Simplifying Gift Giving
So I'm sure most of you have hear the cute little rhyme that has been circulating for a few years. The basic premise is to simplify gift giving.
- Something you want
- Something you need
- Something to wear
- Something to read
I've decided to adapt this into our own family dynamic. I want Rocket Baby to grow up being appreciative of the things he has. I want him to be gracious and kind and generous. Teaching those qualities begins early and a perfect time to teach this is during the holidays.
I remember growing up and having the best Christmas mornings imaginable. Tons of presents, wrapping paper and bows and ribbons littering the living room, and a barrage of new games and toys to occupy us ll day long. And while those memories are fantastic and I treasure them, I also think they set my siblings and I up for disappointment as adults. Christmas isn't as epic as it was when we were kids. Now we have bills and families and practical expenses that don't make it easy to splurge and go all out.
I believe that this season is to celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, whom we believe to be our Lord and Saviour. There is so much focus on getting that the reasons for giving are lost in translation. I believe we give to reflect Christlikeness. To celebrate a birth of a Saviour. Giving shouldn't come with conditions, long lists, and frustration. Giving shouldn't be stressful. It shouldn't give you a headache. It should come from a pure heart and be received with gratitude and grace.
For me the idea of simplifying Christmas is to grow Rocket Baby to know and understand that we celebrate to honor Jesus. Our pastor mentioned two Sundays ago that we are blessed to be a blessing to others. This is especially true suing the holidays. I want things like volunteering and giving to others to be commonplace for Rocket Baby. I want him to look forward to helping out at the local shelter then to open a ridiculous amount of gifts he really doesn't need.
Want. Need. Wear. Read. Four things. The most important gift we can give him is a humble heart and a eagerness to do good things.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Seasons
Again, this poor neglected blog!! We have been walking through such a crazy season in life. It escaped my mind that this thing even existed. I'm hoping to get back on track in several ways.
1 ~ I think people probably get annoyed with how much I talk about Rocket Baby on my Facebook page. I'm going to start doing an update on how awesome he is and brag, brag, brag. I love this sweet baby of mine and life with him is an adventure.
2 ~ I still love the idea I had behind A For Adventure and I want to keep up with that and explore the great NW with my darling Rocket.
And 3 ~ To write away emotions. Like I said, this season for us has been crazy. We recently lost a pregnancy. I was 15 weeks along. This is the second pregnancy I've lost in 4 years. One thing I've learned is how amazingly supportive my community of friend and family are, but I have also learned that others are not always so blessed. In a loss like this it's easy to feel alone or like you are a burden to others and that simply isn't true. Unfortunately these types of losses are far too common and I'm passionate about normalizing the discussion of it.
So there you have it. A short and sweet and real update
1 ~ I think people probably get annoyed with how much I talk about Rocket Baby on my Facebook page. I'm going to start doing an update on how awesome he is and brag, brag, brag. I love this sweet baby of mine and life with him is an adventure.
2 ~ I still love the idea I had behind A For Adventure and I want to keep up with that and explore the great NW with my darling Rocket.
And 3 ~ To write away emotions. Like I said, this season for us has been crazy. We recently lost a pregnancy. I was 15 weeks along. This is the second pregnancy I've lost in 4 years. One thing I've learned is how amazingly supportive my community of friend and family are, but I have also learned that others are not always so blessed. In a loss like this it's easy to feel alone or like you are a burden to others and that simply isn't true. Unfortunately these types of losses are far too common and I'm passionate about normalizing the discussion of it.
So there you have it. A short and sweet and real update
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